Counselling and Psychotherapy

What if... Life was more fulfilling. I was more confident and dynamic.
My Relationships were more rewarding.
My life was more harmonious. My thoughts were calmer.
I communicated clearly and assertively without being aggressive.

I would love to show you the version of you that lives this way...

About Me

About Me

Welcome

If you're reading this, you may be feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or in pain. Whatever has brought you here, I want to acknowledge the courage it takes to seek support. You don’t have to face this alone.

A Path From Overwhelm to Peace

I specialise in helping people move from a place of discomfort and feeling stuck — where anxiety, depression, stress, or emotional overwhelm can feel all-consuming — to a place of greater peace, clarity, and inner strength.

Healing doesn’t have to be confusing or out of reach. I offer a simple, compassionate roadmap, based on experience and real change. It unfolds in three gentle, grounded steps:


Step 1: Understanding Your Struggle

When life feels out of control, the first step is to begin making sense of what you’re feeling and why. Whether you're facing anxiety, low mood, burnout, or something more complex like ADHD, we will work together to understand what’s going on beneath the surface.

This part of the process is not about labels or judgement — I'll help you to meet yourself with kindness and curiosity. Often, just putting words to what’s happening can bring a deep sense of relief and calm.


Step 2: Gently Changing Unhelpful Patterns

Once we understand what’s going on, we’ll begin to explore the patterns, beliefs, and ways of thinking that may no longer be helping you. Through techniques tailored to you, we’ll uncover new ways of relating to your thoughts — often with surprising insight and compassion.

Many people discover how willing their mind is to cooperate, once it’s met with care and understanding rather than pressure or criticism.


Step 3: Building Resilience for the Road Ahead

This final step is about moving forward — not just feeling better in the moment, but learning how to stay connected to your inner strength in the long term.

You’ll leave with tools, self-awareness, and a deeper trust in your ability to navigate life’s ups and downs with greater confidence and self-compassion.


If this approach speaks to you, I’d be  happy to walk alongside you. You're welcome to reach out — whether you're ready to begin, or you just have a few questions.

Wishing you warmth and peace on your journey,
Paul


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Clients

Testimonials

These sessions have helped me to see how my thoughts are messing up my life. I'm finally in a position to take control of things.

- JL - Christchurch

Paul is a mix of sensitivity and understanding of everyday problems. He's certainly helped me to feel better about the major relationships in my life.

- BD - Winton

Sessions with Paul have helped me clarify my way forward in life and highlighted areas where I was held back. I feel a release and expansion - a new positive attitude to life.

- CH - Bournemouth

Contact Me

Get in Touch

Availability

I am available most weekdays and evenings. Contact me to book a session.

Phone

07838 387 456

Email

paul@bournemouth-counsellor.co.uk